How not to date or sleep with a sleeze

while staying at my boyfriends house, i notcied a lot of Men's fitness and Maxim magazines. Not saying that he reads these articles but, i just want you to be VERY aware at what your man may be reading. I read the articles "how to date 3 girls at one time!"" and i was infuriated.

So this is for you girls.

"HOW NOT TO SLEEP WITH A SLEEZE!"

Guys now days are getting more slick with technology and things like myspace. From experience I need to tell you that us girls need to stick together. These guys think they have us fooled and will make us look like the hood rats that fight on Murray.

So how do you know if your guy is tryna pulla fast one?
-he says ï love you"too soon (Girls, do not be fooled by this. Men know about sensitivity, they just don't choose to use it. so if its week 2 and he says the 3 words...watch out. This is a technique used to get you caught up.)

- Of course, not having your phone calls returned

-He mysteriouly disappers into the night with a explanation that NO ONE would believe.

-Papers with phone numbers (IF ITS NOT A GOOD ENOUGH EXPLANATION COPY DOWN THE NUMBER AND CALL IT)

-New friends (like girls that they suddenly spend ALL THEIR TIME WITH)

-Change in dress or interest ( When's the last time he took a shower to go visit his mom and dad..and is that a new colange and a new shirt? You better say "Oh Hell no!"

-Constant absence or Flaking

-If you can only see him on certain days of the week or come by at a certain time.( At like you're gonna go surprise him one day. See if he's there...alone. if he is then well...GIVE THE BOY WHAT HE WANTS!lol!)

Of course these are obivious things. I'm not trying to teach you how to be a stalker or a man hater or anything like that, but i'm telling you how NOT to look like a damn fool!

If your guy has a myspace...watch out. These skany little tramps now days have cameras and mics and all that shit to keep your dude posted at the computer for hours on end now.

WARNING: IF YOU GO TO HIS MYSPACE AND YOU SEE THAT THE USER CUTE_BITCH87 HAS LEFT YOUR MAN A COMMENT SAYING SHE HAD A GREAT TIME LAST NIGHT OR THE WORD BABY IS INVOLED IN ANY PART OF HER SENTENCE...HE'S MOST LIKELY CHEATING!

Don't be fooled! Get to know your guys friends. who is he hanging out with? Who is this girl? IS she REALLY just a friend? Does she have a boyfriend? be discreet though! The biggest mistake you can do is jump to conclusions and just assume he's chesting. Do your research girls!

Another thing, please do yourself a favor and don't get drunk at a party and sleep with a sleeze. he could tell all his homeboys,you could end up on Girls Gone WILD college parties Vol.8, or just simply end up with a 9 month problem.

And please USE PROTECTION! You don't know what these niggas got now days girls!

Girl vs. Girl: This can be one of your biggest mistakes. This is when you introduce your best friend to your boyfriend and she turns all Melrose Place on you and tried to move in on your man. The number exchange between them is cool because, you never know what might happen and your best friend my need to call your ghuy. But, seriously keep the phone calls to a minium. Especially, if you both like the same type of guys. I made this mistake and my supposed "BFF" Tried to pull a fast one on me. (luckily my man's not a Dog) YOur boyfriend/best friend shouldn';t be more involed with you them than you!

Girl vs. Guy: This is when he has a sleezy best friend. WATCH OUT! Get to know the sleeze and really find out what his intentions are. Like, does he really like you being with his best friend? Is he with someone and a player (not saying you should tell his girl. Only if you're a 100% sure and you're ready to take responsibility.) and what is he interested in? Smoking? Drinking? Strip clubs? He will trya dn persude your girl to leave you on friedays nights and go to places with him."Like that new club that he wants to check out? He'll wanna take your guy. At first he'll act like he's just in it for him, but he'll find someone and she'll have a friend and then he'll push her on to him. Let your guy have friends, but let him know how you feel about his "sleeze ball"friend. not saying that he can't have him as a friend but, just that..well you don't want him to be like him.

Again, this is not to turn you into a stalker, or a man-hater but, to let you know guys are trying to step up their player status. Be aware and open your eyes ladies. Try and stick together and we got them beat by a mile.

Until then-

peace.

hero